I decided against sending the message.
I also decided that since kiddo was spending the night with grandma anyway, it was probably best just to leave her there… not risking the drama and issues that might come up related to father’s day stuff.
I’m not sure if it was the best decision… but at least it makes for a much more calm day.
From the craft project I saw the other kids carrying, it looks like it was probably a better choice, as with pre-printing on part of it, it would have been hard to have been adaptable.
Not sure if a message earlier to the director would have changed that or not… probably should have sent it… but suppose it is what it is.
Next year she will be in the youth program, which I’ve never seen do crafts, so I think we should be past the issue now for the most part.